Sunday, November 30, 2008


Hi friends, I have celebrated my 25th marriage anniversary on 24th of this month and that was a small family gathering with about 25 members, most of who traveled about 300 kilometer distance to attend it. Though I was thrilled to receive my most beloved people including my bothers, sisters in laws, bother in laws to my house, there was some thing lacking in the whole atmosphere. In the course of the function I felt it was my parent’s absence due to which I was unable to enjoy the function whole heartedly. I have seen the hardships they have gone through in bringing up us and when the time came to relax and enjoy their remaining life with their grand children, it was very late and they left us for ever. Whenever I am in the middle of happy moments, a guilty feeling is covering my mind about it. I got so many occasions to serve them but not utilized them properly. I have to live with this guilty feeling through my remaining life and believe I deserve this punishment. As a tribute to my mother and an eye opener to all those who are lucky to still have their mom around them – here is a beautiful message.


When you were 1 year old, she fed and bathed you.
You thanked her by crying all night long.

When you were 2 year old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.

When you were 3 year old, she made all your meals with love.
You thanked her tossing your plate on the floor.

When you were 4 year old, she gave you some crayons.
You thanked her by coloring dining room table.

When you were 5 year old, she dresses you for the holidays.
You thanked her by plopping in to the nearest.

When you were 6 year old, she walked you to school.
You thanked her by screaming “I am not going”

When you were 7 year old, she bought you a base ball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next door neighbor’s window.

When you were 8 year old, she handed you an ice cream.
You thanked her by dipping it all over your lap.

When you were 9 year old, she paid for your piano lessons.
You thanked her by never bothering to practice.

When you were 10 year old, she drove you all day, from soccer to
gymnastic, to one birthday party to another,
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.

When you were 11 year old, she took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked her by asking her to sit in a different row.

When you were 12 year old, she warned you not to see certain TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

When you were 13, she suggested for a hair cut.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.
You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, she came from home from work looking for a hug.
You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car
You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying out till dawn.

When you were 19, she paid for your tuition, drove you to campus,
carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying good-bye out side the dorm, so you wouldn’t
be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing any one.
You thanked her by saying “it is none of your business”

When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future.
You thanked her by saying “I don’t want to be like you”

When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.

When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment
You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.

When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked about your plans
for the future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling “muuhh-ther, please….!”

When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and
told how deeply she loved you.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.
You thanked her by her that “things are different now”

When you were 40, she called to remind you about relative’s birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were “really busy right now”

When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their

And then one day, she quietly died. And every thing you never did came
crashing down like thunder on your HEART.

Hi friends,



Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Important health tips

* Answer the phone by LEFT ear

* Do not drink coffee TWICE a day

* Do not take pills with COOL water

* Do not have HUGE meals after 5pm

* Reduce the amount of OILY food you consume

* Drink more WATER in the morning, less at night

* Keep your distance from hand phone CHARGERS

* Do not use headphones/earphone for LONG period of time

* Best SLEEPING time is from 10pm at night to 6am in the morning

* Do not lie down immediately after taking MEDICINE before sleeping

* When battery is down to the LAST grid/bar, do not answer the phone as the radiation is 1000 times

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Bad Economy - Good for future generation?

Hi friends, are you worried about the present global economic crisis? "YES"- will be the answer from most of us. West to south, billionaire to beggar, employer to employee, in a nut shell every one of us is badly hit by this global phenomenon. Even though I am also a victim of the present bad economy, I see a ray of hope which is beaming out from this crisis for my next generation.

In a pursuit to attain economic superiority over other, every country has started industrial production in excess of demands without looking back at its side effect on the Mother Nature, and the main beneficiaries are the so called five super powers of the world. Goods were being produced in uneven proportions to requirements and China took a leading role at this period and quantity replaced quality. All available natural resources are explored and utilized to satisfy country's ego and greed of some sections of society. Here is a simple example but very alarming one to illustrate China's greed at the cost of environment: production of wood pulp and VS Fiber, for which eucalyptus tree is the major raw material. They entered this fray recently and set up plants with very high capacities and started selling pulp and fiber at very cheap price giving up the concept of quality and if these types of industrial activities are carried out at the cost of nature, the future of our next generation will be very bleak. I am not pointing out China alone, every country and its population is on this self destruction path. The under ground big bang experiment which is being carried out in America may be a step in that direction, only time will tell us.

As a testimony to the Newton’s theory which says "for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction", all our activities are producing side effects in the form of generation of green house gases, global warming, ozone layer depletion so on. Every year global average ambient temperature is increasing resulting in melting of ice in the glaciers which was formed billion years back, effectively increasing the present sea water level. If this trend continues which is an irreversible one, then those days are not very far when the whole earth is under water.

Friends, due to the present economic crisis, industrial production is on low scale all over the world and I hope this will continue and go down further keeping in mind its benefits to our ecology and environment. Though we cannot restore the damaged environment back, we can sustain the present level by limiting our industrial activities as per our global requirements. Oil wells in the gulf region have reduced their oil production and it is a good sign according to me not only because we are preserving every drop of oil for our future generation but we are saving the environment from generation of green house gases.

I always believe that our present generation is the only custodians of the Nature and its resources which are very old and priceless. But we often forget this very fact and doing every thing not to hand over this Mother Nature to our next generation in a healthy condition. The present economic cries should be an eye opener to every one of us who have little concern for their children and grand children. We should utilize this God send opportunity to change our life style and do every thing possible to minimize pollution generating activities. It is now or never. Let us put our greed behind every thing and practice the concept of environment protection first, every thing next. I hope now you may agree with my view that the present economic crisis is a blessing in disguise to all of us and to our future generation.

Presently all of us are busy in selecting favors for our friends and relatives for the coming Christmas and New Year to show our love and affection to them and it is a custom since many generations all over the world. I believe our greatest offering of all the times to our next generation should be a great place to live not to suffer.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Do you want your genetic report ?

Hi friends, this blog post is slightly different from my regular posts. Today I visited a site AccessDNA which is dealing in DNA and other genetic test. As per the instruction given in the home page of the site I created my profile and became a registered member within no time. In the next step I filled all the details which are required to generate my free personalized genetic report. It was so easy and it took hardly a couple of minutes to fill the data. At the end I received a detained report and an expert was readily available on line to clarify my doubts if any. Along with my report I noticed this message in the family category box :Genetics are inherited. As a result you may share many of the same genetics risks with other members of your family, who might also benefit from our website.
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All the best.